Anyone able to cite any references? When people are together, one insists only on spontaneity and makikng few plans. But isn't this insistence on spontaneity really a way of being more in control? Doesn't spontaneity really only work when you are by yourself. Insisting on spontaneity that in effect, makes the other person unable to really do anything, isn't that just control freak in disguise?Relationship issues - spontaneity as a form of control?
Yes, you are right !! any time anyone puts a rule or limit on something then it is a form of control, even being spontaneous only - that is definitely a form of control, not to mention so ridiculous - some things absolutely must be planned in advance in order to work.
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